Ghanaian singer BongoFari has appealed to mothers to help their children understand fathers' sacrifices. He spoke ahead of Father's Day on June 3. Many fathers make significant efforts for their families. These contributions often go unnoticed by their children.
BongoFari, who relies on singing for income, shared a difficult personal experience. He had to sell his music studio equipment. This action was to raise funds for his wife's childbirth. The procedure was a caesarean section. It was necessary to save his wife and newborn child. He stated that despite his efforts, his children were unaware of his struggles.
His children did not know what he went through. His wife did not tell them about his sacrifices. He paid for their school fees and provided for them. Yet, his children sometimes felt he gave them nothing. This highlights a common disconnect. Children may not fully grasp financial or material sacrifices.
The musician also advised fathers on their responsibilities. They should not abandon their duties. This is especially true when facing marital challenges. He acknowledged irresponsible behaviour by some men. This includes infidelity and domestic abuse. Such actions contribute to negative perceptions of fatherhood. Men need education on partnership and transparency with wives.
BongoFari believes mothers play a key role. They can help children see fathers' efforts. He urged mothers to acknowledge fathers' contributions. If a father provides for children, mothers should inform them. Children's memories are still developing. They might not know who is doing what at home. Fathers play a critical role in child upbringing. They deserve more appreciation from families and society.
Father's Day is a time for recognition. Families across Ghana prepare for the occasion. It celebrates fathers' contributions and commitment. BongoFari's message encourages deeper appreciation. This year, JOY BRANDS is hosting a Father's Day event. The event is the JOY SAFARI ESCAPE. It offers a weekend celebration for fathers. Activities include an island party, boat cruising, and animal feeding. The aim is relaxation, excitement, and family bonding.